tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18699284.post4406485318103677210..comments2023-02-15T06:23:43.283-10:00Comments on Just Un-Do It: The PrayerSteven Crisphttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12133103376050989480noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18699284.post-6143461391946552512007-06-15T01:00:00.000-10:002007-06-15T01:00:00.000-10:00Anon,I like your (Nouwen's) idea about taking smal...Anon,<BR/><BR/>I like your (Nouwen's) idea about taking small steps toward Love. I mean, isn't that how we get anywhere, change anything, really -- through small, persistent action.<BR/><BR/>We may think the big acts of Love have the most potential for impact. The Christ-like love that can face-down the naysayers. Some David-victories over the hateful Goliaths. But we are just normal people, you and I, and so let us begin now with these small steps.<BR/><BR/>Now you say that we are somewhat pitiful, and will it not (hopefully) improve as we continue to evolve? You know, I'm not sure how pitiful we are. When you consider where we have come from (i.e., the law of the jungle), we have quite a different perspective on life. I think what we see as not representing Love is amplified by the stories that our media choose to report, and we choose to listent to.<BR/><BR/>Sometimes, I think we need to tune up our Lovometer -- have you turned yours on lately? A lovometer detects the small loving actions you describe. It will also quickly detect the random acts of kindness. Between two people. Within a neighborhood. Even among total strangers.<BR/><BR/>My lovometer was in a quite rundown state after watching news daily, reading the paper, listening to NPR during my hour-long commute in bumper-to-bumper traffic, and then fighting the "good fight" at work. It took some serious repair to get my lovometer back into working order.<BR/><BR/>But then, as Nouwen notes, after some years of these small steps toward Love, it seems to be working much better now. I see these acts of love almost all the time, and somehow, don't miss the nighly blood reports, or even the Paris Hilton tears reports any more.<BR/><BR/>Now perhaps some might think I am just closing my eyes to reality. I've thought about that quite a bit. No, I don't think so. There is a reality out there, all right. But it has NOTHING to do with what's on TV. The reality is, of course, that you and I are not separate. Do unto others as we would have them do unto us ... because that is exactly what we all are ... One.<BR/><BR/>Thanks, anon, for the comment and the insight. I think I will dust off the lovometer, and take it out again today. Lately I've been missing some of these small acts of love. Oh yeah, I might even offer a few myself.Steven Crisphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12133103376050989480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18699284.post-34140657656361024212007-06-14T23:57:00.000-10:002007-06-14T23:57:00.000-10:00All those things to remember in The Prayer are sma...All those things to remember in The Prayer are small steps of love, but these small steps are all most of us can make (if that). Consider this interesting idea (by Henri Nouwen) and try to connect it with The Prayer...(hint: I think it connects!)<BR/><BR/>"How can we choose love when we have experienced so little of it? We choose love by taking small steps of love every time there is an opportunity. A smile, a handshake, a word of encouragement, a phone call, a card, an embrace, a kind greeting, a gesture of support, a moment of attention, a helping hand, a present, a financial contribution, a visit ... all these are little steps toward love.<BR/><BR/>Each step is like a candle burning in the night. It does not take the darkness away, but it guides us through the darkness. When we look back after many small steps of love, we will discover that we have made a long and beautiful journey." (Henri Nouwen)<BR/><BR/>So pitiful that we (speaking collectively about our species) can not even take these small steps very well yet. Wonder if we are evolving toward being about to do better in this love area? After 5000 years? 50,000 years? (If we have not self-destructed that is.) Or maybe never, not even after a million more years, because our species is somehow terribly flawed? (There's a depressing idea.)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com